How I Met Your Mother 在Season 9 终于落幕...
这个season比之前的season更加感性,差不多每一集看完后都想哭,
哈哈,感觉上,自己越来越眼浅了...
这搞笑美剧不像Big Bang Theory 纯粹搞笑而已,每次结尾都有一两句都会让你有发而想,
尤其刚好有经历过或身在其中,会深深感受和体会...
Ted终于遇见了他的最爱,在经历过那么多的考验后.
从2005年开始, Ted就和他的一帮死党和新加入的Robin聚在酒吧里聊天, 各种有趣的事很多都发生在那里...
直到2014年,大家都开始碰见人生的转折点,大伙儿都要各奔东西了...
于是,大家约定,在重要的时刻都会出席。
在Robin的婚礼,是让我体会到生活的残缺与美好...
1.在自己的婚礼上,所有到场的人都对你很重要,
但婚礼过后,大部分的人再没见过了。
The friends, neighbors, drinking buddies
and partners in crime you love so much when you're young,
as the years go by, you just lose touch.
You will be shocked, kids
when you discover how easy it is in life to part ways with peoples forever.
That's why when you find someone you want to keep around,
you do something about it.
就像现在, 我在大学四年里的生涯,也大概差不多要完毕了,
大家都有了打算, 继续读master也有,去工作的也有,还没有打算的也有,
毕业后,我会不会也只有在朋友的婚礼才会出现,
渐渐的,也失去了联络呢?
目前,我希望的是,可以与大家友谊长存,
突然性情转变的朋友,或分裂的朋友,或内讧的朋友,希望你们记得你们以前也是要好的buddy,不要因为小事而闹翻,结果在你老的时候回想时,后悔很深刻的刻在你的脑里。。。
在爱情中,输赢都那么重要吗?甚至在小小的决定都要拼得你死我活,得胜的那位就以为可以永远得到主导权,其实,他或她最后会是个输家。
Lily and Marshall 争论要移民去Rome完成Lily的梦想,还是逗留在New York,Marshall 就职他梦寐以求的法官。。。
Lily肯让步,Marshall 理所当然的说“你以为我会讲输?” (Marshall 原本是个律师)
但,Lily 说了几句提醒Marshall:
“If you keep lying to me, if you keep cutting me out of decision,
if you keep using words like winning and losing when you talk about marriage,
It's not like it'll happen all at once,
but if keep acting this way,
little by little,
you gonna lose me.
Is that what you want?"
Marshall:
" No, of course not.
You're not my enemy.
You're my wife."
3. 婚姻的誓言
太多的谎言来给于对方惊喜,是浪漫的一种, 同时间,也让对方活在你的谎言世界里,就算对方懂你性格如此,也会有害怕的一天,辛苦的猜测你说的是否实话还是谎言... 诚实之道才是让对方放心的方法。
要走在教堂里的红地毯,已经不容易,
要执之之手,与之偕老更加不容易。
It was a twisting, turning road that led to the end of the aisle,
and not everything along the way will perfect.
To be honest, not everything to follow would be perfect either.
But what is?
None of us can vow to be perfect.
In the end, all we can do is promise to love each other with everything we've got.
Because love's the best thing we do.
PS: Waiting for Lang Tengah Trip
PS: 不舍得也得要放手, 天下无不散的筵席